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I have been deceived from the onset?

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naomi asked:


I have dated this guy for a 3yrs nd I’m just realising wat a big mistake I made. He is in another country nd we hve not seen for a year. He told me in january that he is transferring to school in philadelphia and I was thrilled. He was supposed to come in april but he then told me that his Mum would miss him so she is makin him stay till august. After a big fight, I was going to breakup when he begged and told me he was coming in july. He assured me and even told me he had his ticket confirmation in his mail. He had changed his password a month prior and when I asked him so I could see the confirmation, he refused. After a week, he gave me a hard clue. with the help of my work mate, I decoded it and found a visa application (non us citizen) in his inbox. It stated he wntd 2 arrive on august 26 and he was visitin for just two weeks and not schooling. The bomber: he is 26, 4 yrs older than what he told me. He has never been to the us even though he told me he was a citizen. help me pls!

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Reader's Comments

  1. sonnyboy |

    The best help I can give you is,leave the guy alone.You don’t need this in your life.
    He’s a liar and a loser.
    Don’t talk to him,don’t meet him,just dump him.He’ll get the message when he doesn’t hear from you.

  2. rcButterfly |

    He’s a liar plain and simple. Why are you waiting around for this guy? He’s 26 years old he needs to leave his Mommy if he truly wants to be with you. It’s an excuse why are you falling for it?

  3. MsPrettieGirl25 |

    How have you been dating this guy for 3 years and haven’t seen each other in a year? You said yourself, and I quote

    He has never been to the U.S. even though he told me he was a citizen.

    There are too many inconsistensies in your question. Is this someone you have been dating online? I would quit seeing, emailing, or whatever you are doing with this guy. There are too many lies and how can you believe anything that comes out of his mouth after this? Move on.

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