Bulk email

Recently some of my personal emails are landing in peoples spam or bulk folders, and getting worse. It doesn’t seem yo matter who the ISP or provider is. Started with Yahoo–tagged me as a marketing company. I have my own domain .us Contacted my domain server—they suggested I delete the wildcard in my forwarding section. Defeats the purpose of a domain if I do that, and won’t solve the problem–it is OUTGOING mail. My ISP said they had no idea and suggested the wildcard issue too. My mail is sent OUT through ISP and replies to my domain. It was suggested this could be the problem. If so what’s the point of owning a domain? Only solution would be to set up my own server or pay the domain to use theirs–if that’s the issue.

Can anyone help? Don’t know if people get my mail–if I send a follow-up it just goes to the same place. What is happening? Used to work fine, haven’t changed any settings.

Please help—I’m getting desparate and not a computer person!

Linda