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naomi asked:


I have dated this guy for a 3yrs nd I’m just realising wat a big mistake I made. He is in another country nd we hve not seen for a year. He told me in january that he is transferring to school in philadelphia and I was thrilled. He was supposed to come in april but he then told me that his Mum would miss him so she is makin him stay till august. After a big fight, I was going to breakup when he begged and told me he was coming in july. He assured me and even told me he had his ticket confirmation in his mail. He had changed his password a month prior and when I asked him so I could see the confirmation, he refused. After a week, he gave me a hard clue. with the help of my work mate, I decoded it and found a visa application (non us citizen) in his inbox. It stated he wntd 2 arrive on august 26 and he was visitin for just two weeks and not schooling. The bomber: he is 26, 4 yrs older than what he told me. He has never been to the us even though he told me he was a citizen. help me pls!

wendy asked:


I was about to answer this question that was posed by another user, but unfortunately I couldn’t as I got disconnected. I can’t access this thread again so here’s my answer to the person.
I don’t think you are wrong for expressing your feelings. As you rightly said, you may lose her forever or found her forever, so there is a chance there. Better to know than to wonder what might have been. You can never tell. Maybe she is hurt at this moment so be gentle. Ignore what other say; because I believe women prefer someone who can express himself as you can. At least you’re being honest and that’s what ladies look for in a man. The males who disagree and discourage you ignore them as people who think a woman would think he is weak for expressing himself is usually one who lack self-esteem. She seems to be close so I wouldn’t worry. Just try and be patient. Maybe she afraid of being hurt again, so she sticks to just being friends. I think the mail is a bomber. Hey, and look someone (zumbileana) who is in a similar situation thinks that’s sweet. Definitely go it. Cheers. OH, let us know how it goes.